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Ellen Meny's avatar

Thank you for this! I think another challenging element of publishing is that everyone advertises their wins (understandably), and sometimes it feels like "you" are the only one failing or struggling to get off the ground! It always helps to hear about someone else's challenges along with the wins, because it truly makes people feel less alone.

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Becky A's avatar

Thank you for this! I left a similar comment under the video you did with Kate Elliott a few days ago, but recognizing a lot of my feelings about publishing as grief was a huge help in processing them. My first (and so far only) series also completely tanked, alongside a lot of other stuff going haywire in my life. Eventually I realized I wasn't just mourning the books themselves, which never found an audience, but also the dream of the beautiful, easy career. Actual publishing is a very messy reality compared to the beautiful dream and letting that dream go was *hard*.

This is more tangential -- maybe more related to last week's newsletter -- but I do think that learning the hard way will be useful prep for when I hopefully sell again someday. Going into my first series, I really didn't know enough to even know what to ask, even though I was informed by blogs and twitter, etc! Being a first-time author trying to figure out how to shape a writing career felt a lot like asking an entry-level employee where the see themselves in five years -- I don't know, I just got here, where's the bathroom?? If (hopefully when!) I make my way back, I'll have a *much* better sense of what I'm looking for in a partnership with an agent, what questions I want to ask my publisher, and what I really need for writing to be sustainable.

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